There are many reasons why many people do not believe in themselves, it could be because of internal or external factors.
What I realize lately is that everyone got something worth cherishing and being proud of.
How do you expect someone else to believe in you if you don’t believe in yourself?
Sometime it is only you that does not know your worth, other people are aware of your value.
I will use the usual relationship between a boss and his workers as an example. Many business owners treat and talk to their employee badly, in some worst scenario they call them all sort of name to ridicule them and put them in a mental state of having no awareness of their self-worth and value.
They continue to show them a mirror in words that portray them as a nobody. They make them to understand that they doing them a favour by giving them a job; like I am helping you, without me you would probably be on the street begging and starving without food to eat, without this job you will be homeless because you will be penniless.
This is how many bosses treat and talk to their workers.
But the truth is that they know your value, your worth and how important you are to their business but they have this wrong belief that appreciating their workers make the workers to feel like gods or as the fiber wire of their business which they are.
If you don’t believe in yourself, such boss will make you lose your self-esteem and give you the impression that you don’t have other choices.
There is a saying that if you don’t build your dream someone else will hire you to build theirs.
If you have not get to the level you want to be, that does not mean you are useless, always appreciate yourself in the little things you can do for now and continue to build yourself.
Believing in yourself is a mental thing; it is the reoccurring action happening in your brain that gives you confidence to do anything. It is the mental trust you give to your senses to do something.
Believing in yourself is the fuel your potentials need to be actualized.
Now say to yourself. I believe in myself, I believe in my ability, I believe I can do it, I believe I can make it.
Never doubt the greatness you can achieve with the little you have.
Thank you.
Olumuyiwa Ona..
Walecase
(A treasure in the box)